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Of Female Beauty

      In contemporary society there are many attractive voices clamoring to be heard. Many offer strong opinions on what makes a woman beautiful.  Media today has all sorts to say about that—creating an unrealistic image in our society of what a beautiful woman is.  Most women do not fit that mold, leaving them unsatisfied and struggling with self-image problems. 
Recognizing the gap between reality and popular culture, the makers of Dove beauty products developed “A Campaign for Beauty,” wherein the answer to what makes someone pretty would be revealed.  Creators are determined to make media, models, and the human race aware that one does not have to fit into a uniformed Barbie mold. In a commercial created by Dove titled, “Evolution”, we watch a model who starts off as looking like herself come to work.  The model arrives ready to shoot pictures for magazines, fashion, billboards—the images that we all see everyday. 
When I first saw the model, my naïve mind thought, “Wow, she is not like the person I see in the magazines. She doesn’t look like she has the features that those beautiful models possess.”  Hmmm…why would I think that?  After all, she was that model.   But what I saw next introduced me to reality. Producers took this model, put pounds of makeup on her, covered up all of her imperfections, did her hair, changed the lighting, and then snapped pictures. 
      But the process didn’t stop there. They then took one of her best photos and doctored it. They elongated her neck, made her eyes bigger, airbrushed her face, made her features more striking, and slenderized her cheeks. That was the image that appeared on the billboard. The image that people pointed at as they walked passed.  That is the image women see and think, “Wow, she’s so perfect. How come I don’t look like that?” The answer is simple.  Because even the model doesn’t look like that.  Hardly anyone does. 
      Our perception of female beauty has been distorted by popular culture. And whether we like it or not, this is something that defines us. That makes up part of our society. That girls and women everywhere from the time they can apply makeup and from the time they watch their moms paint on cosmetics, strive to be like. And the matter of fact is: we will not be satisfied with who we are and what we look like if we keep striving to be someone else—a woman who in many cases, does not exist or who is also unsatisfied with her looks. 
      This image of beauty can prevent us from reaching our full potential. What if women considered that being beautiful was defined by being unique, confident, happy and healthy? Now that would be an image worth plastering across a billboard. Women everywhere have become addicted to finding the latest trend to look like that… but who decides what that is? I admire someone who is 100% confident in herself—one who strives to achieve what God would have her. 
No other earthly creature competes for vanity the same way humans do…and we admire and love the many qualities of each. Consider dogs, for instance.  Take the competition and emotion out of the human beauty equation, and it is easy to recognize what makes one species of dog from another—all are beautiful and unique.  And we simply classify them based on what we value most.  Some recognize the Golden Retrievers for their loyalty; another adores a poodle for its curly crazy hair. Any way you cut it, a Golden Retriever, no matter how hard it tries, will never be a poodle. Bottom line. And you know what? I think I’m okay with that.

Emmaline 

To watch Dove's commercial, click HERE

Adventures

Dan and I both had school off so we thought we'd go on a little adventure. This was the result.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nXUHEL9iOiA&feature=youtu.be


Back to Reality.

When I get more pictures from the wedding reception I will put them up!!
We had sooo much fun being engaged and getting married, and now we absolutely love being married! It's the greatest thing to have your best friend with you 24/7 with no more goodnights!
We are back up going to school where we have a couple classes together and studying is so much easier. Dan's been making me take this 7 am class with him which I thought would be the death of me, but I actually really love it. 

I'm taking a nutrition class because it interests me, and now I'm minoring in that!! Woohoo! Life is good. We got married the 28th of December and it was the greatest day of our lives. I love the temple and it was so incredible to look into Dan's teary eyes across the altar!

Christmas Eve in Scottsdale Mall... we got on the news!! The reporter said, "You two are just glowing. What's the deal??" Hahaha





Everything turned out wonderful with the wedding, then we were of to the magical land of Cancun!! We would highly recommend this honeymoon to anyone. It was sooo much fun and just seriously amazing! We stayed at the Hard Rock Hotel in Puetra Venturas and it was a blast! All inclusive. All you can eat. All you can drink.. diet coke hahaha. We were there over New Years which was a blast! The hotel threw a huge party and we went crazy too. I think the greatest part though was that the hotel was just newly taken over by Hard Rock Hotel, and so only half the rooms were full because the rest were being remodeled. So we enjoyed the beach and pools and restaurants and it was hardly ever crowded!! Probably my favorite day was New Years Day. We decided to start the New Year off right by being a bit adventurous. Anyone who knows Daniel, he's crazy. Hahaha he's not afraid to do like anything. So we went to this adventure park and went hard core zip lining, hammock gliding, ATV riding, swimming through caves, and river rafting! It was an absolute BLAST!!!






One crazy thing was the Iguanas everywhere!! They were HUGE and would be in the grass, and all over the rocks. We even saw one while zip lining way up in the tree tops! 

We are now back in Provo and loving life.



It's been so fun decorating our little home and getting into the routine of things! We love our ward and where we live! Life is good. We will be heading for Chicago in the summer for Daniel to sell pest control! We are excited for that adventure! But for now, we looove being together.

Emmy



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